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        <issuerName>ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>Wachter Kevin</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O ARBOR REALTY TRUST, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>333 EARLE OVINGTON BLVD, SUITE 900</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>UNIONDALE</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>11553</rptOwnerZipCode>
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            <officerTitle>EVP, Asset Finance &amp; Treasury</officerTitle>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Shares of common stock par value $0.01 per share of Arbor Realty Trust, Inc. (the&quot;Company&quot;) granted pursuant to the Company's 2026 Amended Omnibus Stock Incentive Plan. One third vest on the date of grant, one third vest in one year and one third vest in two years.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Represents shares that have been withheld by the Company to satisfy tax-withholding obligations in connection with the vesting of common stock.</footnote>
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    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Maysa Vahidi, Attorney-in-Fact for Kevin Wachter</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2026-09-17</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
