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        <issuerName>ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>Natalone John</rptOwnerName>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">On August 5, 2026, Arbor Realty Trust, Inc.'s Chief Executive Officer, Ivan Kaufman, purchased 375,000 Partnership Common Units and Special Voting Preferred Stock with a fair value of approximately $1.9 million from this trust that was set up for estate planning purposes and administered by an independent trustee. The trustee of the trust engaged an external third party valuation firm to assist the trust in deriving the fair market value, which was determined to be $5.17 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">These estate planning vehicles were set up for the benefit of the immediate family of Mr. Kaufman. Mr. Natalone has voting and investment power of these vehicles and disclaims beneficial ownership over these securities.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Not applicable.</footnote>
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    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ John Bishar, Attorney-in-Fact for John Natalone</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2026-08-05</signatureDate>
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