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    <periodOfReport>2025-11-26</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>ABR</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>Green William C</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O ARBOR REALTY TRUST, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>333 EARLE OVINGTON BLVD, SUITE 900</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>UNIONDALE</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>11553</rptOwnerZipCode>
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                <value>2025-11-28</value>
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            <transactionTimeliness></transactionTimeliness>
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                    <value>12800</value>
                </transactionShares>
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                    <value>9.02</value>
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                    <value>205418</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Represents the average cost per share. The shares purchased on November 28, 2025 were purchased at various prices ranging from $8.99 - $9.03 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">On November 26, 2025, Mr. Green received 1,476 fully vested Restricted Stock Units (&quot;RSUs&quot;) of Arbor Realty Trust, Inc. (the &quot;Company&quot;) in lieu of the dividend equivalent due on Mr. Green's existing RSUs and paid by the Company on November 26, 2025. Mr. Green has elected to defer his dividend equivalents and receipt of the common stock into which the RSUs are converted until his service as a director is terminated, or sooner upon a change in control, pursuant to a pre-established deferral election.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Maysa Vahidi, Attorney-in-Fact for William C. Green</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2025-12-01</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
